One Main Reason

OA Responsibility Pledge – Always to extend the hand and heart of OA to all who share my compulsion; for this I am responsible.

Question – What have you gained from OA? Do you feel that certain sense to repay? How can you give back?

Feeling responsible assumes first that a person has gained something; the gainer then wants to repay for that gain. When asked to write about our Responsibility Pledge, I thought to look rst at what I have gained from OA.

When I came back into OA in January 2000 (after seven years of trying some controlled eating), I was thoroughly miserable and eating myself into an early grave. I asked an abstinent member in recovery to sponsor me. Thankfully she agreed, asking me to do three things to the best of my ability: attend meetings, work the Steps, and give service. She said the best of my ability would change as I worked the program. With no question in my mind, I agreed.

So what changed? Why now do I feel that certain sense of wanting to repay? Of responsibility to OA?

How it was: When I was miserable and eating like a mad-woman, food was on my mind all the time. I was making regular trips to convenience stores and sweet shops, gaining weight, and feeling a stroke or heart attack was waiting for me. I couldn’t find clothes that fit; I was sweating, chaffing, and uncomfortable in everything. I felt childlike disappointment that God wasn’t giving me what I wanted when I prayed to be thin. I was trying various diets and weight-loss regimes and felt ever-increasing desperation when they didn’t work. I felt “less than” every other person on the planet; the hell I was in was just getting worse.

How it is now: I feel content and happy with life. I eat three planned, abstinent meals a day,  eliminating my trigger foods and weighing and measuring others. I have sanity during and between meals. I live in a healthy body, having lost over 60 pounds (27 kg). I buy clothes with a sense of balance and feel comfort and fitness in my own body. And I have a living relation- ship with my HP, whom I call God.

As my sponsor showed me how to work the Twelve Steps, the love and respect I felt for God began to increase. I gained a new authenticity. I continue to work the Steps in everyday life: preparing and sharing my inventory, mak- ing amends, and nourishing my relationship with God. I feel neither “more than” nor “less than” anyone else. I do the best job I can as God guides me. Life, the people around me, the program, and God gives me abundance, peace, and love for my fellow man.

Do I feel that certain sense that says I need to give back what I have been so freely given? To step up and do whatever God wants me to do? To carry this wonderful message to those who are compulsive eaters? You betcha!

~ Anonymous, A Step Ahead 2nd Quarter 2016

Intergroup Service Opportunities

Sea to Sky Intergroup Board Member elections will take place at the Intergroup meeting on  June 25, 2016. You are welcome to join us  at Unity in Action Church in New Westminster (1630 Edinburgh Street, New Westminster) from 10am to 12pm. Click here for more information about Intergroup meetings, including a a list of positions and job descriptions.